M y husband was always very tactile and loving but rarely wanted to have sex with me, even in the early stages of our relationship. He eventually stopped altogether after about four years. He was vague about the reasons and never brought up the subject himself. I begged him to have therapy, and he always agreed, but he never did. I read a lot about sexless marriages but nothing seemed to apply. But then, after three decades, the penny dropped and the truth dawned; he announced he was gay, and left.
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Nicole Sachs remembers perfectly the moment she realized she was gay. It's okay. It's who I am. When she arrived at the restaurant, Nicole, who has the maturity and emotional perspective of the year-old psychotherapist she is, but the manner of a sugar-high six-year-old, giddily announced her revelation.
This above all: to thine own self be true, And it must follow, as the night the day, Thou canst not then be false to any man. I believe it is vital that gay Christian married men have an opportunity to get together from time to time for mutual support. Married gay men often suffer profound loneliness. Fortunately, the history of the Christian church has proved that our faith can survive the severest hardships and even persecution when we have fellowship with others who are able to understand us and offer support in relationship and prayer. Courage provides a unique opportunity for us to find that support.
This article was written by Mel Currier and provided by our partners at YourTango. I didn't know Michael in high school, but we were in the same graduating class. We met at a singles' party and continued our conversation the next weekend at a happy hour, stopping for coffee afterward. Our first real date was our year high school reunion.